Letting Go Of Love

Have you been dumped, betrayed, or left heartbroken that you never thought you would ever want to love again?  How do you know when it is time to let go and look for love somewhere else?   

Did the other person really even make you happy?  Are your standards too low?  Don't wait around because you think he/she is going to change!  Don't put your life on hold.  Ask yourself, "Are you hiding in this relationship so you won't be alone"? Don't hold the opposite sex responsible for the mistakes your ex made.  Learn to trust again; by trusting yourself you learn how to deal with imperfections.  Have enough trust in yourself to be willing to put yourself on the line with someone else, without any guarantee of what will happen next.  Know that you will get hurt again it you're in a relationship.  (There is no perfect person without any flaws.)  Don't invest more that you can loose.  (Take one step at a time.)Don't beat yourself up!  You got through your last experience, you learned from it and now it is time to move on.  

Life is not a success-story-only journey.  You are going to get hurt along the way!